I arrived back home from Memphis last night after a delicious and exhausting few days away.
A day prior to our arrival, Memphis was covered in about 2 inches of freezing rain, transforming the city into an sparkling ice sculpture; frozen in its tracks.
Sadly my luggage was not interested in hanging out in the icey air and decided to hang back in Chicago, so when I arrived at the hotel without luggage the lady at the desk immediately noticed and exclaimed in the more sincere and sweetest southern voice "OH, you poor dear" and started putting together a bag of toiletries for me, complete with a WARM COOKIE!! Then she proceeded to upgrade me to a nicer room and I am pretty sure would have carried me up there if I had asked.
This was our first taste of a kindness I have never experienced before - a deep tradition of thoughtfulness and sincerity that seemed to run through the veins of the people we met in Memphis.
After settling into the hotel we decided on a quick trip to the mall (oh how American stores make me giddy) to get some emergency clothes, which was hugely successful until it was time to come home. I take for granted the fact that on every corner of my city there is a cab or 10 waiting to pick you up. I believe there may be only one cab driver in all of Memphis.
After calling two cabs and waiting in the cold for about an hour, I called the hotel in a bit of a panic, explaining that I could not figure out how to get home and I think I may have just lost a toe. In less then 10 mins one of the hotel staff came to rescue, picking us up in the 15 person hotel van!
The rest of the trip was packed full of this kindness - gentle waitresses who call you dear and place a hand on your shoulder while you order, strangers who stopped to drive us back to the hotel on another chilly night, a greeting fit for an old friend from someone I have only know through work and email. Despite its icy chill, this is one of the warmest places I have ever visited.
More to come - Diners, Beale Street, Duck Masters and the home of the King, Graceland!
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